INTERPERSONAL RELATIONSHIPS - ATTRACTION - COMMUNICATION IN RELATIONSHIPS
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What is the Comtempt in Gottman's Four Destructive Communication Behaviours?
How were participants recruited for the study?
- Participants recruited through:
- Announcements in classes
- Advertisements in the student newspaper
- Posters around campus
- 101 dating couples (202 individuals total).
How is defensiveness described and what is its antidote?
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What levels of self-disclosure did men and women have?
What research method was used in the study?
- Longitudinal correlational study using self-report questionnaires.
- Data collected at baseline and then annually for 4 years.
What is stonewalling (One of Gottman's 4 destructive communication behaviours) and how can it be addressed?
Did self-disclosure strongly predict whether couples stayed together or broke up?
What was the independent variable in the study?
Describe social exchange theory according to Kelley and Thibaut 1959.
What is a correlational design and its limitation?
- Cannot claim causality (e.g., we do not know if self-disclosure causes higher satisfaction or if satisfaction causes more self-disclosure).
What is the aim of the Sprecher and Hendrick (2004) study?
How did self-disclosure levels change among couples who stayed together for four years?
List the dependent variables in the study.
- Self-esteem
- Responsiveness
- Relationship satisfaction
- Relationship stability (stayed together vs. broke up).
What is the high attrition risk in studies?
- Over 4 years, some couples may have dropped out, potentially biasing the final results if only the "happiest" couples stayed.
What sampling method was used in the Sprecher and Hendrick (2004) study?
What is a strength of using a longitudinal design in the study?
What were the control variables in the study?
- Relationship duration (mean 18.7 months, range 1–55 months)
- Gender (both men and women included)
- Measurement tools (same questionnaires used each year).
What does Social Penetration Theory (Altman & Taylor, 1973) argue?
- Argues that close relationships are formed by a process of gradual self-disclosure, sharing personal things about yourself with someone you trust.
Why is having both partners complete questionnaires a strength?
What is the benefit of using standardized questionnaires?
What are the stages of Social Penetration Theory (Altman & Taylor, 1973)?
- Stage 1: The Orientation Stage: "Small talk," low risk.
- Stage 2: The Exploratory Stage: Reveal more personal opinions.
- Stage 3: The Affective Stage: Share private information.
- Stage 4: The Stable Stage: Trust is developed.
What is the first destructive communication behavior in Gottman's "Four Horsemen of the Apocalypse"?
- Criticism: Attacks the character of recipient ("You're so selfish"), instead of focusing on specific behavior. Antidote is using "I" statements.
Why is studying real-world relationships considered a strength?
What is a limitation of using an opportunity + volunteer sample?
What is a limitation of the WEIRD sample?
What is a limitation of self-report questionnaires?
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